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Friday, December 31, 2004

no mood to party

Safely got back to Singapore yesterday night.

Made a change in plans from going to Penang to staying back in KL then to malacca and JB in view of the tsunami incident in Penang.

If we had been in penang a day earlier, i guess we would have witness events ever more shocked and heartbroken in 20 plus years of our life. Destructions of homes, loss of lives, panic and chaos of the locals and tourist in Penang.

We arrived at KL early in the morning and had planed to journey to Penang later the evening until SW received a sms from his friend,

"Hey you guys still going to Penang? 1000s of people are evacuating from there"

Initially we thought it was a prang from his friend until we bought a local newspaper and saw the news ourselves. The tsunami has struck the coastal areas of Penang and people staying at the coastal areas were ordered to evacuate to the mainland in view that there might be another tsunami due to aftershock of the earthquarke.

We did not really feel the danger nor the chaos from the papers, but to play safe we decided not to make unnecessary risk and not go with our plans. It was not until when we saw the tv news that we felt the shock and severity of the tsunami that had reached many parts of Asia. Real life images of the Phuket shores that were flooded by the metres high waves made me feel how bad the situation could have been if we were at Penang a day before.

The following days, we kept in touch with news of the tsunami disaster of various areas through the local papers. Death tolls climbed as the news of the tsunami changed from shock to sadness as more families were broken and more people missing. Malaysia was the least hit areas as compared to Thailand and Indonesia with Penang having the highest death toll of around 60 plus people and many missing. Figures are still rising ( i guess ) at this moment while i am typing this blog.

Life could really be vulnerable and we could really be very close to death sometimes. Just imagine going to the Maldives or Phuket to enjoy the festive season. Resting the night in the hotel and then came the tsunami waves. We could have been drown in the our dreams. Close friends partying next to you a few hours ago could be just swept away by the waves.

Joyfully plans for the holidays could just turn out to have disastrous endings.

I felt touch after reading the caption of a picture from The New Straits Times in Malaysia. The picture showed a innocent, young, cute Singapore boy sitting in a hospital bed. From the expression on the child's face, i could feel that he was still unsured of what had happened. The caption was something like this: "Singaporean boy in Phuket whose father left him in the hospital and went back to the disaster area to find his wife who was still missing." Maybe because i was in Malaysia reading about the disaster of a Singapore family that i felt touched. Hopefully the wife can be found and the family could be safe and together again.

Singapore is nicely sheltered by our neighbours and we did not feel the shock of the earthquarke that had caused the tsunamis. Being such a small island, i guess if any tsunami did hit us, all our hdb's would have been flooded. Our mrts would have drowned, trees would be uprooted, no more a garden city. Where could we go and hide or take cover? Maybe we could climb to the top of the hdb and hope that the water level does not rise that high and hope that the building does not collapse due to the impact of the waves.

Being so close to the disaster area, i feel that we should not be ignorant about it. We should not take life as granted as it may seem for us even though we may not be affected directly. From the news that everyone is trying to help those in the disaster area, i feel that we are not small, everyone can make a difference. Every effort that we take to help those in need would definitely reach them one way or another.

Its the end of the year. Life goes on tomorrow at the start of a new year. Guess its time not to take things for granted and feel that we are not small. Any efforts no matter how big or small, we can definitely make life with a difference.

Sunday, December 26, 2004

All my bags are packed, I'm ready to go

Yup, going off to penang later tonight.

Taking night train to KL then have a 1 day tour there and via train to penang.

Woho, guess its been 2yrs since i left singapore to venture overseas again. This is the 2nd time i'll be travelling with 2 other gals overseas. Err, of course theres also 2 other guys accompanying me. Don't think i'm ever be so lucky enough to be travelling overseas with 2 gals only.

I remembered the previous overseas trip where we had a gal in our company. Went Tioman then to KL. At KL, her "relative", "big auntie", "da yi mah" came to visit her, and all our plans had to change to suit her. Initially we decided to the Subway Lagoon (if i not wrong), but due to her condition we had to change the plan. Although she kept insist that we go ahead without her, being guys with good character, we decided not to do.

Still remember that due to her period, she had to get the "err hem" from the pharmacy. She didn't want us to know about her condition and tried to hide the stuff she bought there. We wanted to accompany her to the pharmacy but she kept insisting to go on her own and meet us somewhere. Guess the more she wanted to hide, the more we knew what happened.

Through this experience, me and my frens knew more about a gal's monthly physical encounter. How gals will react and what we should do, the type of food, drinks, never to provoke, always smile, understand, kind, be concerned, always nod in approval, (the list goes on from here, add in yourself)....

Ultimately it was still a fruitful and pleasant trip with her company. Hopefully, on this trip with 2 gals, things would turn up well too.

With 2 travel guides, 1 big bag, 1 red passport, some ringget, woho, think i must go, if not i'm gonna miss the train...

Box it up

Pardon me for my ignorance, why is 26th Dec known as boxing day? I find it funny to receive presents on Christmas, then wait anxiously until the next day to open up the presents. Why not just open them on the same day and save all the anxiousness. Or maybe the presents are just to difficult to open, and need a day to do so.

Thats just what happened to me. i received "the most difficult to open and the longest time to open" present ...



It was a bear in a christmas socking sealed in a tin can.

Though it didn't take a day to unwrap my present, it took me and my friends some extra time and effort to "unbox" it. Initially we used keys to pry open the lid, so that the can will not be dented and still be kept. Nope that din work. The can was passed from one person to another, it was like a new game to entertain ourselves besides the ones we have been playing before exchanging gifts at my friend's place.

Eventually i gave the green light to use the can opener. Lucky no keys were chipped in the process.

Yeah i like my gift although it took up a bit of time before i got to see it. It gave me a bit of attention in the crowd as everyone tried to help me with the "unboxing" of it.

Good things just doesn't come easy?

Happy Holidays

Friday, December 24, 2004

ho ho ho... merry christmas

Woke up todae hearing christmas songs in the air.

Wasn't sure where it came from but at least it made me realise its christmas eve!

I got out from bed and saw this christmas card lying on my desk. Wow! Someone still remembered to send me a christmas card this christmas. Haha, I felt so happy all of a sudden and also surprised by who the sender might be.

It was a purple envelope with a snowman at the bottom left hand corner and bits of snowflakes in the background. Hand-written on it was,

"To: Jia Lin, ...(my address)... "

Then on the top right hand corner was a singapore stamp "23 cents".

Wah! The cost of posting a card is 23 cents? Guess it was ages since i posted anything traditionally, more correctly through snail-mail.

I quickly washed up and opened the envelope. So who would have my addy and send me a card?

Inside the card it read,

"Yo! Hope you find a gal you like soon and not have 'double bachelors'!"

"Happy Christmas",

signed GR

Hey thanks, din expect that you will send me a card. Glad that i'm one of the people in your card list! Best wishes to you too.

I have never thought how surprised and joyful it would be to receive a christmas card through the mail yet again after a few years of not having so. Reading these personalised wishes in the card could really make one feel connected and happy.

Who would still have kept the practice of sending well-wishes to people through mail boxes. At least i know i've stopped, since end of JC. I still remembered sending christmas cards to the wrong person then. Fortunate, that i din jeopardise any relationship between anybody from the inappropriate contents in the cards. If not it wouldn't be a happy christmas then.

So what made us stopped sending cards to people through the mail? Too busy? Feeling the hazzle to paste stamps, writting addresses, or burning too big a hole in the pocket as just too many people to send cards to? Could it be that we have not been receiving cards from friends that is why we have stopped doing so too?

"No wah... i send virtual cards!", what a great excuse i give myself.

Hmmm guess i have stopped doing so too. The internet has given great communication ability, but i feel that sending a real card with hand-written wishes, beats a virtual card with nice christmas chimes heads down. Guess the level of surprise and sincerity are different.

Its still not too late.

The next festive time is the coming New Year! Hmmm theres still 1 week left to make someone feel surprised, connected and happy upon receiving and reading your card.

Hehe, dun forget to send me a card too :P

Sunday, December 12, 2004

So Happy!

so happy todae after 2 daes of competition... though i din win any medal... i was still very happy... i felt myself winning!

cos ntu went into the competition with a "broom"... sweeping almost all of the possible medals! WOHO!

technically... tis the first time i took the entire ntu archery team for competition... being the team captain... i was rather worried of the first yr archers... it was their first competition and from their trainin scores for the past few wks... i was kinda scared of bringin them for this comp... wondering if they would tarnish the "invincible" name ntu archery had earned for ourselves for so many yrs...

other clubs all over singapore have grew stronger over the yrs and have been waiting for the chance to defeat us... even the seniors were rather worried... seeing first-yrs being late for trainings here n there... so the seniors gave them a good talk on our club history n the power tat we alwaes show durin competitions... hopeful of boostin their morale n for them to show more discipline, effort for trainin.

todae was the 2nd dae of the competition... when i reached the competition ground early in the mornin the first thing huiqing did when she saw me was...

"hey jia lin... ntu standard class... (she showed me the "chopping" n "slicing" hand movements... errr at least tats wat i thought it was...)"

wah... i thought my ntu first yr archers kena trashed... (1st year archers were shootin in the Standard Class)

"wah 'quan jun fu mo'?" i replied....

"No lah... we sha'ed (killed) the rest... ntu sweep all the top 3 postitions!"

then i took the results from her... from yesterdae's individual rankin round... the men's sweeped the top 3 placing... ladies' sweeped 1st n 2nd place...

our senior archers gave secure wins as usual... nv givin me any worries...

felt really happy n proud...

then came todae's shoot... individual n team knockout rounds for both men n ladies...

i watched n encouraged the team on... from the top 16 individual... ntu kill all the way...

i was really impressed by the first yr ladies team... confident n poised... all the arrows zoomed into gold... release were fast n clean... my worries from trainin were lifted...

with every arrow into the gold the team shouted "Hao!... Good!"... with our team awesome support... all oppenents shook in fear of us

we comfortably clenched the gold n silver for standard class ladies

results of competition:
Std Class Men
1st, 2nd 3rd out of 42 archers
Gold (individual knockout)
Gold (team knockout)

Std Class Ladies
1st, 2nd out of 33 archers
Gold, Silver (individual knockout)
Gold, Bronze (team knockout)

Open Class Men
1st out of 57 archers
Gold (individual knockout)

Open Class Ladies
2nd out of 18 archers

Bronze (mixed open team knockout)

Bronze (compoud open mixed team knockout)

at the prize giving ceremony... the number of times ntu went up to receive awards overtook all the clubs... our cheers were the loudest...

it was our show...

wat my seniors said were alwaes right...

when u go up to receive the medal... nobody knows who u are... nobody remembers your name... they will only and alwaes remember the team jeresy u are wearing... the name of the club you are representing...

we proved tat ntu is still the dominanting archery club in singapore

archery is a very individual sport... though not all ntu archers took home a medal... but we won... we won as a team...

Friday, December 10, 2004

money face $_$

"tan qian shang gan qing"... relationships are broken when we tok about money...

went down to jurong town stadium for sighters round todae...

sighters... non-scoring rounds where archers are allowed to shoot in the competition ground before the actual dae of the competiton... for warm-ups... familarisation... zeroing of our own sights to the targets

the bus driver drove like in initial D... so we missed a stop... alighted at the nx possible stop n waited for the rain to turn to a drizzle b4 we back-tracked to the stadium...

with soakin wet feet... we reached the competiton ground close to 5pm

from the pa system...."so tis will be the last end of sighters round todae... "

then someone in the background said... "eh ntu lai le"

wat the?

i remembered the timing for sighters was 2 - 6pm... written clearly in the invite... so i asked DM... who owned the shootin range...

"i thought it was until 6?"

"every1 here knows is until 5" DM replied.... (ma de... after the sighters i went back hall to check the invite... it was until 6pm loh... )

"aas paid us to let u all shoot until 5"

wrigglin my soggy toes... "hey can lah.. let us sight a few ends"

"... kuai dian setup lah"... DM barked (tats wat i felt he was...dog)

so me, fu n hao quickly setup our equipment in the drizzle...

out of courtesy i asked DM... "so we own time own target?"

"u guys shootin? $4 per hour ok... "

wat the!!! i thought u said to let us shoot liaoz... $4 per hr? might as well shoot FOC in ntu... we can shoot up to 90m... ur place only a crappy 18m...

i really din feel like payin... no pt... goin to sight a few ends only... so i said "at most 3 to 4 ends"

...relunctantly he gave the green light...

then he asked "so u guys from where?"

wat the? i still remembered callin u n comin here last wk to buy stuff from u... and u seem so polite n helpful... mayb bcos i was shovin money to ur pockets tats y.... tats y u remembered the cash n not my face ya...

wah... i was really fed up... din really wanna sight le... never have i ever pleaded with pple to let us shoot... its like when u go to the track to jog... then some1 says "eh $4 per hr"

its not like shootin a few holes in ur target will cost much... and its not like givin us a target to shoot will affect ur bizness... nobody is shooin in ur range anyway... we are only here bcos of the competition is to b held in ur range ok...

i hate dealing with "money face" pple... are pple dealing bizness really tat money conscious? is earnin tat extra few bucks more impt than winnin the hearts of customers? sometimes i really wonder will archery ever flourish in sg with these money face bizness ppl ard plus those old uncles holding power positions who only know how to tok cock only. pple like us... just want to shoot... enjoy ourselves... feel the challenge... pls dun try to munipulate the archery circle with ur strife for money n power

Saturday, December 04, 2004

falling into hands of temptation

i've been warned but i still fell into it....

seniors alwaes warn me tat being in the key position of the team... we shld nv b tempted and accept gifts by any pple... especially notable pple in the archery arena... we shld try not to owe favours to anyone tat could jeopardise the club in anyway...

one of these notable pple came to ntu todae... our club decided to purchase some stuff from him in view of the upcoming competition... he is one of the dealers for a popular korean brand of archery equipment in sg...

so he asked wat arrows i was using and if i was willing to test out a set of prototype arrows developed by this popular korean brand... i felt no harm in trying

from his van he passed a dozen arrows to me and told me the market price would b ard $300 a dozen once it is tested to be ok and sold internationally...

wow... the arrows were nicely fletched and had new shiny silver pts... i felt really tempted to own another new set of arrows... he told me tat the arrows are 29 inches and wondered if i could draw them. i'm using ACE 670.. 28 inches... and i felt my arrows were quite short... so 29 could b just nice...

i really wanted him to give me the arrows to try...

"my arrows ard 28.5 to 29... so shld b ok" i said... just tryin to convince him and let me test it aniwae....

so he gave me the arrows and asked me to test them... and jokingly asked me to write a report after using them...

i went back and measured the prototype with mine... alas... it wasnt 29 inches like he said... it was abt 29.5 to 30 inches... much longer than i could draw... couldn't really shoot with it...

then i thought... hey... y me?

i wasn't really tat zai in shooting... besides... he could have easily given the national archers and let them test it out for him... at least they would b more experienced and skilled to do so...

there must b a catch somewhere... nobody would b so nice to give something expensive away... free of charge

i could only draw at most 28.5 inches... y could i have accepted a dozen so called 29 inch arrows...

i felt really stupid...

fooled by temptation...

Friday, December 03, 2004

and i wish for...

yup... dunnoe y... wat i wish for came true yet again... but not wat i expected... as alwaes... :(

still remembered last yr when i spent the christmas eve nite with the bachelors gang... my sec sch buddies... guess we have known each other for at least 10 yrs or more le... we decided to go tw's house to dawn... somehow the last time we dawned at someone's place seems far forgotten...

we got onto kc's car and went shoppin for our christmas eve dinner... bbq n roasted chicken... salad stuff plus champagne... vcds, mahjong set, a few computers for lan gamin... and off we went...

though it was not something extraordinary... but somehow spendin the christmas eve together and doin the stuff we like together boosted our lonely hearts for the joyous festival... we are not called the bachelors gang for nothin...

somehow or other... we all agreed during tat last christmas... we will try not to meet up again for christmas in the comin year as we hope tat by nx yr we will spend it with someone else tat we like...

guess every1 was crapping then and din really put it in heart of wat we said... though none of us got attached tis yr... we are still not meetin up for christmas le...

every1's not in town for tis comin xmas period except the tutu me...

kc goin for overseas community project n goin holidae from there...

todae tw asked me to lend him my trekkin bag... i asked goin where n when? mount ophir... 24 -26dec... hk, yk, ws oso goin with nus odac... nv jio me... so sad... still ask me for bag... ntu nus rivarly meh... will ask if got vacancy for me... nvm.. i know dun have one...

but its okie... i da ren you da liang... lend u loh...

and i thought we said to go sl's place for bbq... guess not le...

(陈奕迅's 圣诞结 started to play in the background)

guess its gonna b like tis....

望着电视里的无聊节目 躺在沙发上变成没知觉的植物

Merry Merry Christmas, Lonely Lonely Christmas

谁来陪我过这圣诞节